Lessons in Leadership - part.2
Last week I wrote about leadership book by David Cottrell, called “Monday Morning Mentoring,” a guide to developing leadership skills, and effectively managing teams/groups. I imparted several key leadership learnings in that blog post, with the promise to finish up the lesson this week, and reveal with the “real” secret to leadership truly is. Today, along with the big secret, I want to share with you one more leadership lessons from Tony.
Lesson 3: “Tough Learning”
In this lesson, Jeff comes to Tony with some unsettling news. The annual corporate surveys were distributed for his company last week, and the feedback he received from his team members was less than stellar - and even more importantly - came as a total surprise to Jeff. After speaking with Tony for several hours, Jeff learned that along with the feedback holding some room for improvement with Jeff, there were also a lot of great points that showed Jeff’s strengths, that Jeff had overlooked because he was so upset about the negative points. Tony showed Jeff that he had to look at feedback as an opportunity to learn and grow, and that getting defensive and not accepting what others felt about him only made the situation worse. In the end, Jeff needed to understand that criticism should be used as a learning tool to better one’s self and their team.
The Big Secret
Along with the three I have shared with you, there are many more important lessons in Cottrell’s book that should definitely be read and understood in order to grow into an effective leader. At the end of the book, Tony finally imparts the secret of leadership to Jeff (actually there are two secrets). 1.) Until you learn to accept total responsibility, no matter what, you will not be able to set up a plan to achieve your goals. 2.) Success is the result of making better choices and recovering quickly from poor choices.
All in all - the key here is responsibility. Take responsibility for your actions (good or bad) and when a bad decision occurs, take a deep breath, and then develop an action plan. Don’t play the blame game, or pass along the mess to someone else. It is only through experience (both positive & negative experiences) can you become a successful leader. The process worked for Jeff…and when I implemented the lessons in the book, it worked for me as well. Hopefully these little tidbits of information can help you!
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